Reading Men’s Mind from His Gesture
August 31st, 2010 | 
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He keep his distance from you? This indication that he was indecisive with the relationship.
He was lying
Sign, he often scratched her nose or ears. When he was worried his lies will be revealed, his heartbeat increased and blood flow increased to the nose, ears, and chin. As a result, this condition makes the body becomes itchy.
If already like this, what you can do to avoid from getting stuck with his lie, is installing the friendliest face. Then give him a question that shows curiosity. Do not show accused attitude, said Leslie Seppinni, PsyD, marriage and family therapist in Los Angeles.
You also need more patience to listen to the story, from the teaser questions that you create. Over time he would be trapped alone in his lies, and you can discover the true facts.
He brought bad news
Sign, he pursed his lips. When a man wants to remove something from him, his mouth became tense. Then he will press his lips, indicating he could not decide which one is best. Or open his mouth and speak what it is about bad news, or should not say anything.
You could make him confess about his actions which are bad for relationships. Just tell him that he looked very confused, and then give teaser questions like “Maybe you want to talk about, why look so confused?”
“Do not show excessive reaction. Try to show a neutral expression so that men can not change his intention to disclose bad news, although it will disappoint you,” said Scott Haltzman, MD, author of The Secrets of Happy Families.
His ego disturbed
When men feel uncomfortable and his defense is torn, he would hold his watch as if he would improve his position. This attitude shows a man protect himself because his ego began to bother.
Men like to make himself a hero. So when his boss or lover is lowering himself, his confidence could fall.
“When I hurt his feelings, he feels that he losing strength for himself,” said Haltzman. It suggests you should allow time for him to be alone and regain control of himself.
He worried about his relationship
The sign is just like the men hide something in his hand. We began to question the continuation of relationship with your partner, he also will avoid intimacy.
“The way men seek solutions and make decisions about his relationship is to create physical distance between the pair. When men do this, he was to proceed with their feelings,” says body-language expert Patti Wood.
The best response you can do as a partner is to open himself. Position yourself to be ready to receive or hear anything to say. Take him to talk and open. It’s fortunate if the man is willing to open himself. If not, give him time and space to be alone and think of solutions, said Haltzman.
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